It is always stressful to combine your life with that of your significant other.
Moving in together is a trying time and you have to learn to compromise to make the arrangement work.
Both of you need to have a clear picture of what you want in life, and your plans need to align to some degree if the relationship is going to last. Most importantly, you need to get along with their family, because it’s always a challenge to deal with your in laws. That’s why I’m so careful when my boyfriend’s parents are coming over; I try to make the house perfect for them. I learned quickly, however, that despite my best efforts, we were going to disagree in one realm in particular; we do not see eye to eye on the thermostat settings. It turns out that they are accustomed to being warm, and want the temperature settings to be right around 80 degrees, even at night. I try my best to keep them happy, and I have no problem running the furnace during the day, but at night I refuse to feel hot and humid air while I try to sleep. I personally prefer to have the air conditioner on, making the indoor air condition cool and dry for sleeping. Because this seems to be a point of contention, I am preparing to have zone controlled heating and cooling installed in our house. That way, my in laws can adjust their bedroom to any temperature they wish, while I can enjoy my air conditioning all night long.
Whole home air purification
